Monday, May 14, 2012

Experiment and Have Fun With Bondage, College Editorial Advises


"I feel vulnerable, but in a GOOD way!" Image source: Fucking Dungeon.com.

You KNOW an article that begins like THIS is gonna get swept up by my flying monkeys:
If you’ve ever asked a lover to tie you up before he has his way with you, you know what it means to be vulnerable.
Oh, yeah! Two things about this article: the source and the tone, and the quote itself.

First of all, it's a quote from Chico (California) College's student website. College kids have been all about sexual experimentation for a long time, but it's kinda weird to see an article ENCOURAGING sexual experimentation in a student website. Most colleges are nervous as a cat in a roomful of rocking chairs about what appears in student publications. I'm thinking that whole "in loco parentis" thing that made colleges crazy about student goings-on has relaxed a bit. And the lead is "try some bondage!" Gotta love it!

Next, the line about vulnerability. See, here's the thing that a lot of guys don't get. A woman who enjoys ordinary vanilla sex has to make a decision to let someone who is in most cases bigger than her and much stronger than her, stick part of his body into her body. That's vulnerability! The tying-up part emphasizes and increases the vulnerability, but the thing is, women who have vanilla sex ALREADY know what it means to be vulnerable. It's not a brand-new thing with them when you haul out the ropes, though it may jump the feeling up quite a bit.

That's why they are so much better at figuring men out than men are at figuring women out. They have to be.

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